Tuesday 24 April 2018



There are many different kinds of soul ties some healthy and others unhealthy. For the sake of this article, I will be concentrating on the unhealthy soul ties that are formed in romantic relationships before marriage. Humans are what we call “triune beings”, they are made of soul, spirit, and body. Our souls are the seat of our will, emotions, and intellect. Before marriage, our souls should be connected to the spirit of God as people who are believers. That means our will, emotions and intellect should be guided by the spirit of God. After marriage, our soul should be connected to our mate and the Holy Spirit. God initially designed a soul tie within marriage so that couples could walk as one. However, if a person becomes emotionally and sexually entangled with someone before marriage, they create a soul tie that is unhealthy.

1 Corinthians 6:16 says, What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. (KJV)

Here are some clues you have a soul tie:
1. Your mood shifts based on their presence or absence.
2. They are obsessively on your mind.
3. You have difficulty making decisions without that person’s input or approval.
4. You always consider the person’s reaction or thoughts when you are making decisions.
5. You stalk them on social media.
6. You cannot stop seeing them or having sex with them.
7. You stay with them even if the relationship is unhealthy.
8. You stay with them despite family and friend’s protest.
9. You think about them sexually even after you are married to someone else.
10. You are willing to do ANYTHING (no matter what it is) to make the relationship work.

Here are some spiritual steps to take in order to start the process of breaking a soul tie:

1. Acknowledge you have a soul tie.
2. Repent and confess any sins that has been involve in forming the ties.

If you have had adultery, fornication, etc., it is vital that you repent of those sins and receive God's forgiveness for it before you can go about breaking the soul tie.

1 John 1:9 says, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

3. Forgive yourself and forgive any person involved with you sexually who you hold grudges against.
If you have any unforgiveness in your heart against a person you have been sexually involved with, you must choose to release that bitterness and forgive the person. The Bible is clear that bitterness defiles a person.

Ephesians 4: 31-32 says, "Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you."

4. Renounce any covenants made with any person you have been involved with sexually.
If you have made any spoken commitments, vows or even simply saying, "I will love you forever", it has ample power in the spiritual realm to bind the soul to that person (form a soul tie). The tongue is quite capable of binding the soul and can be a great means to create soul ties.

Proverbs 6:2, "Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth."

These spoken covenants need to be renounced in order to break the soul tie. When you renounce something, you basically take them back verbally. You spoke them verbally, now it is time to take them back verbally. For example, if a woman has had a soul tie with a man who was not the one, and said she would never be able to love another man, then this needs to be renounced if she wants to break the soul tie. Such a woman could renounce it by saying something like, "I renounce having said that I will never be able to love another man."

4. Get rid of any gifts exchanged.
Gifts also symbolize a relationship and can hold a soul tie in place. If a person has a ring, personal gifts, cards, jewelry and other 'relationship gifts' from a previous relationship, then it is time to get rid of them. Holding onto such gifts symbolizes that the relationship is still in good standing and can actually hold the soul tie in place even after it has been renounced. You can learn more about the power of symbols in the teaching Symbolic Representations.

5. Prayerfully break the soul tie in Jesus' name
Verbally renouncing something carries a lot of weight in the spiritual realm. Just as vows can bind the soul, renouncing can release the soul from bonds. Jesus said that whatsoever you shall loose will be loosed in heaven (the heavenly realm, or spiritual realm). You can renounce and loose yourself from an ungodly soul tie by simply speaking something like this from your heart:
"I now renounce and loose myself from any ungodly soul ties formed between myself and (mention the name of the person involved), and I break these ungodly soul ties in Jesus' name."

6. Get deliverance prayer if needed.
(God's minister, Father Okwuosa of Ark of Greatness International can be contacted for such godly ministration.)

In addition to these spiritual steps, you will need to do practical things like get rid of their number, move, or change your number, disconnect from them on facebook, instagram and other social media networking platform.

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